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  • Weir Using Technology to Reshape Ministry: C3 Teams Zooming, ‘Owl’ Turning Heads

    Barry Weir is one busy guy. In addition to running his computer services company, each month he participates in eight different CBMC Connect3 meetings thousands of miles apart. They span from Miami, Fla. to Kapolei, Hawaii, with Houston, Texas and Phoenix, Ariz. in between. Not to mention four C3 teams in California.

    If you’re wondering how Weir manages such a full schedule or what he’s doing with his frequent flyer miles, he does most of it from the friendly confines of his office in Yorba Linda, Calif. He literally “zooms” from one meeting to another, assisted by the wisdom of an “owl.”

    We’d like to forget the COVID-19 pandemic, but it had a few notable benefits. Among them was the emergence of virtual meetings, enabling people to connect remotely by using Zoom and other video conferencing tools. With businesses forced to change how they did meetings, demand for these resources exploded.

    Weir, whose decades-long career has emphasized staying on the front edge of computer changes, quickly saw applications for CBMC ministry. His expertise helped a number of CBMC groups to continue meeting virtually when in-person gatherings weren’t possible.

    In addition to Zoom software, his company was already marketing the Meeting Owl Pro, a fish-eye camera developed for virtual conferences. It switches focus between speakers around a table, showing the last three on a large screen at the end of the table. With eight microphones and four speakers, and remote participants on the screen, “it brings people in. They all have a seat at the table.”

    Even though the pandemic has ended, many C3 teams continue to meet either virtually or as “hybrids” – some participants attending in person and others remotely. The rationale, Weir explained, has gone far beyond social distancing and health concerns.

    “From my Friday C3 team, two of our men relocated their homes during COVID, one moving 16 miles away. In Orange County traffic, that’s a two-hour drive each way. The other moved 35 miles away. Since there’s no CBMC in their immediate areas, they continue to join our group every week.”

    Another benefit has been extending the team’s reach far beyond California’s borders. Ron Weber was actively involved with the group. After moving to Phoenix, he was able to stay connected with the C3 team via Zoom and now is helping to rebuild the CBMC ministry in that area. Last year he launched a weekly Mountain Time Zone C3 team.

    Weir started joining a monthly “Coffee with Courage” Zoom meeting after he met Steve Solomon, a CBMC staff leader, while in Boca Raton, Fla. visiting with family. “I wanted to learn a new way to lead a C3 team,” he said.

    Mike Jones, a member of a C3 team and Operation Timothy leader in Santa Ana, Calif. for years, stayed connected to them virtually after he moved to Texas. At his invitation, Monty Boyle joined Santa Ana’s Zoom meetings. Within a few months Boyle gathered some men to start rebuilding the CBMC ministry in Houston. “I joined with them as a wingman and encourager as they launched,” Weir said.

    There’s even an international flavor, with men from South Korea, Bangladesh and Nigeria periodically logging on to the weekly Zoom meetings of the Santa Ana C3 team. “Virtual keeps them connected,” he said, “and if they gather two or three other men, they can start their own C3 teams – and we can help.”

    Why expend the effort to connect with so many different CBMC groups? Weir said it’s because he’s sold on the impact Connect3 teams have on individual men, facilitating their spiritual growth, providing much needed encouragement, and giving them a vision for the ministry God has for them in the marketplace.

    “Every week in our C3 team we review CBMC’s vision: the Power of One God, the Value of One Man, and the Leverage of One Team,” he said. “We can’t emphasize that enough.

    “In a Connect3 team we can go through every element of CBMC’s excellent ministry curriculum: Being a Marketplace Ambassador; Operation Timothy; Living Proof Adventure; and Becoming a Spiritual Reproducer. These are tools we need to effectively represent Jesus Christ where we work and where we live.”

    Weir has deep roots in CBMC. “I’ve grown up around it. My father, John Weir, was active in CBMC when we lived in New Jersey, and while I was attending Westmont College in the mid-1960s, I started attending CBMC meetings in Santa Barbara, Calif. I was selling advertising for the student newspaper, but felt ill-equipped to talk to a 50-year-old businessman about the important things in life. CBMC enabled me to invite a guy to an outreach meeting where he’d hear a peer give his testimony, and I knew guys there would follow up on him.”

    After college, Weir served as a pilot in the Navy but maintained his affinity to CBMC. While stationed in Pensacola, Fla., he met future CBMC President Ted DeMoss and other leaders, and helped start and restart CBMC groups as a naval officer in Norfolk, Va.

    After the Navy, his business career took him to northern California. There Weir met men like Jim Brady and Roger Erickson, “giants of the faith in CBMC who became significant mentors in my life.” As a member of the CBMC group in Oakland, he helped restart another group in Walnut Creek.

    After his company transferred him to Southern California, he found only 10 CBMC groups there actively engaged in the twofold mission of evangelism and disciplemaking. However, he saw the ministry begin to grow as more men embraced the vision.

    “One reason I got involved with CBMC in the first place was learning about how to tell other men about Jesus Christ, helping them mature in their faith, and encouraging others in how to do it.”

    That undergirds Weir’s philosophy in leading Connect3 teams. “I think it’s important to give various members an opportunity to lead a piece of the meeting. This way we can see their skills and ability, and also see groups multiply as new leaders emerge. It’s a great way to develop guys and see their passion for ministry grow.”

    For more information on the use of the Owl for virtual and hybrid CBMC meetings, contact Weir at [email protected].

    To get connected with a CBMC team near you, visit https://www.cbmc.com/membership and sign up.

  • When the Father Invites You Into Sonship

    When the Father Invites You Into Sonship

    Years ago, sitting at a small Bible study with a group of four other men, an older pastor joined us. As young husbands and fathers, he mentored us on the road ahead for us. There would be valley moments and times when we would stand at the top of the mountain. The path we were on would come with many ups and downs. Years later, I can tell you that what he foreshadowed for us was accurate and true.

    There’s one thing that stands out from that conversation more than anything else, and it is this. “Remember, guys, that you are the adopted sons of God. Your Father loves and cares for you and your family like no other. You belong to Him and His family, and He will provide everything you need for this journey. You have sonship.

    Matthew 5:9 calls us sons…

    Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.

    Romans 8:15 speaks to our adoption…

    For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!”

    When we call on the name of Jesus for our salvation, we receive this sonship. The challenge, then, is whether or not we accept that sonship.

    When we stand in the role of a son, we immediately connect that back to our experiences with our earthly fathers. I’ve sat in enough men’s Bible studies now to know that our experiences with our dads have all been very different. Some of us had amazing Christian fathers who led by example, loved our mothers, and showed us regularly how much they loved us. Others had fathers who were abusive, harsh, and unloving – or they were busy, focused on work, and disconnected from our families.

    When we base our understanding of sonship on our relationship with our dads, it can create barriers to receiving God’s love as a man. My experience mirrors this as I tried to understand God’s love through my dad. My father was a good man who loved me, but rarely said or expressed it. I knew he loved me but rarely heard it, and he definitely held back his expression of that love as I grew up and became a man. As a business owner and someone very involved in our community, he often felt too busy for me. Based on that experience, I thought God must love me as a son in that same way.

    I didn’t grasp this concept of sonship until I had my own kids. Something clicked for me the moment I held my twins for the first time. Looking into their eyes, I knew there was nothing I wouldn’t do for them and that I’d hold nothing back from them without a good reason. I’d sacrifice for them, provide for them, and if called to, I’d die for them. They are my children, and I am their father… Like I am God’s child, and He is my Father.

    Seeing fatherhood through my own children, the concept of sonship became very clear… I began to see God, my Father, through a different lens. His love for me became obvious, and I realized that He wanted me to come to him with my challenges and struggles, successes and failures… all of it. Just like I found myself waiting for my kids to come to me, He was waiting for me to come to Him.

    That’s sonship, and having opened myself up to that relationship with my heavenly Father, my life has changed. Even as I write this today, I find myself thankful for that moment so many years ago when this concept of sonship was shared with me… and I’m even more grateful for a Father who loves me that much.

    Today, step into your role as a son. Accepting Christ, you’ve been adopted. Now, let God show you how much your heavenly Father loves you.

    John Gamades, Author of WAR: A Tactical Guide for Christian Men

  • What Does it Really Mean to be a Christian Businessman?

    What Does it Really Mean to be a Christian Businessman?

    By Robert J. Tamasy

    When we talk about being a Christian businessman, what does that really mean? How can we effectively integrate faith in Jesus Christ into our vocations?

    These are questions I wrestled with years ago after leaving the world of newspapers to become editor and publications director for CBMC. My quest for answers launched me on a journey of discovery that continues to this day. Especially because the ever-changing, post-Christian marketplace seems to make the intersection of faith and work more challenging than ever.

    As the editor of community newspapers, even after committing my life to Christ, I had regarded what I heard on Sunday morning as unrelated to the issues and pressures I dealt with in the newsroom the rest of the week. Kind of, “What happens in church, stays in church.” So when I started to meet strong believers through CBMC who recognized their everyday roles as witnesses for Jesus – “ambassadors for Christ,” as 2 Corinthians 5:20 describes it – that was a revelation.

    These were successful, accomplished, even powerful business and professional leaders who, like the apostle Paul, could attest, “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21). While not pretending to be perfect, these were “men of the book,” people who not only read, studied, meditated on and memorized the Scriptures, but also strived to apply them in their daily lives. They practiced what James 1:22 admonishes, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” And they were convinced that teaching was as relevant for the workplace as any other area of life.

    Not all professing Christians in the workplace shared that vision, however. I remember interviewing a CEO well-known in his community for his faith. After hearing the story of how he had come to know the Lord, I asked how his company – widely regarded as a “Christian firm” – differed from secular counterparts elsewhere in his city. I hadn’t intended this to be a “gotcha” question, but he seemed noticeably uncomfortable in trying to come up with an answer.

    After several uneasy moments, the executive turned toward a plaque in his office that featured a well-known Bible verse and then pointed to a Bible he had placed strategically on the corner of his desk. Then he told me about an annual letter his firm sent to clients during the Christmas season with a spiritual message and noted that several religious tracts were available in the reception area.

    Those were all good things, I thought, but did they comprise what makes up a “Christian business”? To his credit, this CEO suggested that I meet with the managing partner of his firm, who proved much better prepared to articulate the biblically-based principles and practices that helped to guide their company.

    Another time I was having lunch with a friend in the financial planning industry. Out of the blue, he blurted, “I’d give anything to go full-time for Christ!” I stared at him for a moment, and then replied, “What makes you think you haven’t already done that?”

    He looked a bit puzzled, so I explained that the notion of “full-time Christian service” – making distinctions between “sacred” and “secular” life – was an invention of the institutional church, not a concept taught anywhere in the Scriptures. After all, there’s no such thing as a part-time Christian, and we’re all called to serve the Lord and others. So from that perspective, we’re all in full-time Christian service.

    Colossians 3:23-24 admonishes,

    “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

    We all have a “boss” we report to, whether it’s a supervisor, the company president, a board of directors, or individual customers we must please. However, as I have reflected on those verses, it’s like walking into the office on my superior and a nameplate on the desk that reads, “Jesus Christ.”

    Over the years that I served on staff with CBMC, I had the privilege of meeting many hundreds of devoted followers of Jesus, each determined to live and work faithfully for Him in thought, word and deed. They were not only “ready always to give an answer to anyone who asks you the reason for the hope that you have” (1 Peter 3:15), but conducted themselves in such a way that those kinds of questions were being asked.

    We spend much of our time in an environment where competition, the profit motive, and personal advancement often result in casting aside virtues like integrity, compassion, fairness, generosity, humility, and honesty. However, many of the people I met were glowing examples of these and other positive, God-glorifying values. When CBMC introduced its “Living Proof” training series on evangelism and discipleship, we could point to many examples of men who indeed were living proof of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

    This was not just through their words, but through their everyday lives and approach to their jobs as well. They exemplified the words of the apostle Paul, who said, “We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well because you had become so dear to us” (1 Thessalonians 2:8).

    They had a firm grasp of the understanding that when Jesus instructed His followers to “go into all the world” (Matthew 28:19 and Mark 15:15), the marketplace wasn’t excluded from His commission. In fact, the Lord had recruited many of His closest disciples from the workplace, and that was where much of His earthly ministry took place.

    And yet, the false dichotomy of sacred vs. secular persists. From time to time I still hear of people wanting to “surrender to full-time Christian service,” meaning enrolling in a seminary to become a pastor or worship leader, or going to the foreign mission field. These are worthy pursuits, certainly. But the Bible doesn’t convey that they are more noble or godly than being a sold-out follower of Christ running a company, undertaking an entrepreneurial venture, building a successful career in sales, or any of countless other roles in today’s business and professional world.

    One day I came across a verse that was exciting, daunting, and humbling, all at the same time. It declared, “For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building” (1 Corinthians 3:9). The first time I read that, all I could think of was “Wow!” Being a “fellow worker” with God – what an honor, such a privilege! And for me, the words “God’s field, God’s building” seemed to connote wherever we went to fulfill our godly calling as business and professional people.

    Whether we have an office in a lofty skyscraper in a metropolis; work out of a small building in the suburbs; travel from one city to another as a sales representative, or maintain a home office, we are God’s fellow workers. No matter where we go, we can cling to this wonderful assurance: “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do” (Ephesians 2:10). How’s that for a job description?


    Robert J. Tamasy is a former publications director for CBMC, and writes for The Connector newsletter. He has written numerous books, including Marketplace Ambassadors: CBMC’s Continuing Legacy of Evangelism and Discipleship; Business at Its Best: Timeless Wisdom from Proverbs for Today’s Workplace; Tufting Legacies; The Heart of Mentoring, coauthored with David A. Stoddard; and has edited other books. Bob’s biweekly blog is: bobtamasy.blogspot.com.